‘Are you asking for my help to be gay?’: what 40 years as a psychoanalyst has taught me about sex and desire
- Posted on August 16, 2025
- By The Guardian
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‘Are you asking for my help to be gay?’: what 40 years as a psychoanalyst has taught me about sex and desire

A married man’s hidden bisexual life; a PhD student’s sideline in sex work; a nun’s fear of pregnancy – over my long career, all have been laid bare in the intimate space of my consulting room