Column | Carolyn Hax: A high school bully is back decades later as friend’s new man
- Posted on January 27, 2026
- By Washington Post
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Column | Carolyn Hax: A high school bully is back decades later as friend’s new man

When a friend dates your childhood bully, can you “sit this one out”? What if you’re in your 40s, and she’s romance-challenged?