Male bonds develop one way, female friendships another. Should we stop trying to make men more like women?
- Posted on January 6, 2026
- By The Guardian
- 3 Views
Male bonds develop one way, female friendships another. Should we stop trying to make men more like women?

The strong and silent masculine image is often derided, but why? Perhaps companionship via trains, golf or a quiet drink is enough, says Guardian columnist Gaby Hinsliff